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Feb8

Life Coaching

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Life Coaching

life coachingDo you want or need support and guidance to bring your dreams to life?  Are you willing to explore your reality and create a future in line with your soul’s desires?  If so, your Bluelady Muse Coaches are here to guide and focus your intentions as you venture along this exciting, and sometimes confusing, path.

  • Free first coaching session and interview
  • $250 per 30-day period

Get My Free Life Coaching Session Now!

What You Get From Life Coaching

Bluelady Muse Coaches draw on their life-experience and intuition to help you create a future of your choice.  Although you will correspond via email and phone with the one Bluelady Muse Coach of your choosing, you will gain the knowledge and experience of the entire Bluelady Coaching Team.  It is like having three coaches in one! (Erin and Kellie confer with their mother, our silent partner, Judy Christenson. Your information stays with our team!)

You may schedule a free, sample coaching session and interview to experience a Bluelady Muse coaching session and to decide if our coaches match well with your personality.  If you feel a connection and decide to work with us after the sample coaching session, then we will enroll you as a Bluelady Muse client and allow you to choose your personal coach from our staff.

All new clients will receive an Introductory Packet via email explaining Bluelady Muse’s coaching service, how to reach your coach, and what we ask of you to make the most of your coaching sessions.

Our coaching program is open and free-flowing to best meet the needs of our clients.  However, there are many things you can expect to happen during your enrollment.

Every 30-day enrollment in the Life Coaching Program gives you:

  • life coacingFour 1-2 hour phone calls
  • Continuous email correspondence with your coach
  • Special BLM programs personalized to you and offered only to clients
  • Detailed information about managing your time, focusing your intent, developing your intuition, using your senses to your highest good and using your nutrition and fitness habits to bring about holistic health and healing
  • Access to other Bluelady Muse coaching clients who want to share their knowledge, experience, hurdles and successes in group sessions (when available)
  • Discounted or Free Learning Sessions on a variety of topics on holistic wellness, divination methods, inner spirit quests, creativity, and alternative health solutions

Get My Free Life Coaching Session Now!

Coaching Uses and Focus

People who use coaches stay focused, balanced, and energized!  You use coaching to accelerate your movement toward your goals about family, spirituality, finances, career, or any other area or situation specific to your life.  Your coach will help you to develop, set and meet goals with measurable results, proving that there is nothing beyond your reach.  Bluelady Muse Coaches emphasize harmonizing your body, mind, spirit and senses to create a lifetime that you are enthusiastic about and proud of living.

I Want This!

Jan29

Life Coaching Costs

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Life Coaching Costs

life coachingWhat can you do if you want a coach badly but can’t afford one?

The commercial says, “You’re Worth It.” However, that advertising phrase is misleading. It implies that you are worth going into debt over something you want very badly. Before you extend yourself to an uncomfortable financial situation, rework the phrase in your mind.

“You’re Worth It” is not an excuse to overspend. You are worth the discomfort of sacrificing your immediate desires when doing so will create a better future for you. You are worth the effort it takes to create a financially peaceful, debt-free life. You are worth the investment in time it will take to find workable solutions to your financial problem!

So, if you feel limited by finances, your first step is to research methods you can use to improve your financial situation. Your second step is to formulate your own financial plan. Your third step is to carry out the plan you create. As you work your plan, new opportunities and ideas will come to you simply because you are working your plan!

In a nutshell, you are worth it. You are worthy of a peaceful, happy life; but, you have to create it, not buy it. Do not overextend your finances to hire any coach.

How Expensive is Life Coaching?

Coaches try to price their services similarly to other coaches. Coaches offer many levels of service and varying types of coach involvement for your money. You really must poke around on the web to find a coach that meets your needs. Bluelady Muse offers life coaching, too.

Your money gives you power to hire and fire. You can’t do that with your friends, you know. Frankly, money substitutes for emotional obligation.

Do you pay your plumber for his insight into your personal life? No, you pay him to fix your plumbing. If he doesn’t fix your plumbing, you choose another plumber. The power of your money ensures that your plumber will do everything in his power to fix your dilemma.

It may sound crude, but the same principle applies to life coaching. You pay a coach to help you find ways to fix your dilemmas. If your coach fails, you take your money elsewhere. Period. That’s not to say that your coach’s only interest is your money. If she were, there are much simpler ways to go about earning it. In addition, your coach’s relationship with you is not based on your ability to pay.

If paying for coaching is a problem, tell your coach. Perhaps you can barter, work out a payment plan, or find some other creative solution to help you get the help you want.

Money is the equalizer in a coaching relationship – it ensures that you get what you need from your coach without having to worry about her personal needs or feelings in return.

Jan29

Why Can’t My Friend Be My Coach?

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Why Can’t My Friend Be My Coach?

life coachingChances are if she is your best friend, she wants the best for you, just like your coach would. However, with friendship comes along the unspoken obligation to agree with you, or at least sugar coat her responses and dramatically raise her eyebrows when you report what your dear husband did wrong this morning.

Best friends rarely play ‘Devil’s Advocate’ to get you feeling, thinking, or looking at your life from a different viewpoint, and her advice is usually what she would do, not necessarily what you would (or could) do.

Friendship naturally ebbs and flows…some days are “all about her” when you would be better served with a day “all about you.” Friendships are emotional obligations that take a lot of time to nurture and grow. Worth it? You bet. Are friends always the best ones to turn to when you need a plan? No; especially if part of your problem is the people with whom you surround yourself. Read the rest of this entry →

Jan29

Life Coaching

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Life Coaching

life coachingYou’re a smart, curious woman and probably a mother, too.  You know how to fix the world when it gets turned upside down. You’ve managed emergency room visits, social dramas, bruised egos, financial trouble and teacher conferences and/or home school stress.

All of your life experiences have led you to where you stand today.  You may wish you’d handled some things differently, but you figure you’ll know better next time around.

Women consistently manage this world’s ups and downs (often at great cost to themselves).  That’s why women are mothers.  We’re the ones everyone else turns to when their worlds go haywire.  Nurturing so many other souls is a large burden to carry!


We women are so good at fixing other people’s worlds that we don’t take time to fix our own world.  Where do you go when you’re hanging on by your fingernails?

Oh sure, you can cry on our husbands’ shoulders, complain to your friends or call your mom. It feels liberating to finally take an opportunity and unload stress. But if you’re like most women, that feeling of liberation is short-lived.

You feel so much better after unloading stress that you think you’re ready to carry on. Unfortunately, “carrying on” means diving back into the situations that caused the stress in the first place. Nothing changes.

You only get to feel like Super Woman for a little while. Then you go back to doing the same things in the same ways. In a few months, weeks, or even hours, you’re a basket case all over again.

If you’re ready to break the Super Woman to Basket Case cycle, then a personal life coach is for you. If you can answer “Yes” to most of these questions, then life coaching could be a positive force in your life.

  • Are you willing to set or learn how to set goals for yourself?
  • Are you are willing to create new perspectives and work to change your attitude when appropriate?
  • Are you are willing to follow up your thoughts with positive actions?
  • Are you are willing to enhance your intuitive and creative abilities?
  • Are you are willing to listen to your own heart for solutions?
  • Are you are willing to begin leaving where you are now in life to create a better, more positive future for yourself?
  • Are you are willing to believe that helping yourself benefits your children, your spouse, and your entire circle of influence?
  • Are you are willing to believe that your life will be full of health, happiness, peace and success by committing yourself to following your heart and soul in all matters?

Are You Willing?

You probably noticed the phrase “willing to” in each of the questions. Your ability to change or grow is based on your willingness to do so. For example, you don’t have to fully believe that ”helping yourself benefits your children” right now. But you must be willing to believe that it could be true. Your coach helps you to find the ability to help yourself.

The coaching process will reveal how helping yourself helps your children, and in time you will believe it to be true too.
Where there’s a will there’s a way. Where there’s no will, there is no way to receive (or to give) help. If you want to change everyone and every thing around you (but not yourself, then you will only get frustrated and alienate everyone who cares for you. Changing your Self is the only way to grow.

Bluelady Muse offers Life Coaching

Jan21

Freebies

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Freebies

Ebooks by Bluelady Muse

You may add the eBooks written by Bluelady Muse to your website or newsletters, so long as all copyright and contact information remains intact.

How To Get What You Want
“You can do this! Now relax, and let the process work for you.”

10 Simple Steps to Create Your Own Luck
We all have luck. The luck we have is either good, or bad. Which side does the lady of mystery fall on for you? Would you believe me if I told you that you create your own luck? You decide if you are going to be a “lucky” person… you even decide if you are an “unlucky” person. We all want luck on our side. We all want to be lucky, even extremely lucky, right? Why would we “decide” to have bad luck?

Life Snapshot Workbook
What instructions do you give yourself every day? How are they holding you back…or propelling you forward? This workbook helps you to get the the root of what you want so you can create the life of your dreams.

10 Great Answers to 10 Great Questions about the Tarot
“The Tarot works with your Spirit and your subconscious mind. Both of these elements of you hold surprising information about you – information that you may normally ignore or suppress.”

10 Great Answers to 10 Great Questions about Fitness
“Fitness is living a simple life, moving your body in ways that you enjoy, eating healthful foods, and letting go of stress.”

Domestic Violence Safety Plan
Helps keep you safer whether you decide to stay or leave your abusive relationship.

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Jul10

Shop

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Shop

shop logoBluelady Muse donates 100% of her shop’s profit to the Verbal Abuse Journal Emergency Fund for victims of domestic violence and abuse. Erin Joi Chavez and Kellie Jo Holly make up Bluelady’s life coaching team. They work together to help you!

 

Bluelady’s Services and Recommended Products

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Domestic Violence Links at Verbal Abuse Journals

Kellie Jo Holly, founder of Verbal Abuse Journals, suffered the oppression of domestic abuse and violence when she and her sister Erin Chavez created the Bluelady Muse website in 2004. Kellie Jo eventually freed herself from her abusive marriage and credits her online friends and Bluelady Muse (the Spirit of this website) for her decision to leave.

Are You Abused? Take the Quiz – Recognizing that your lover abuses you is the first step to ending it. Yet, sometimes the abuse is so subtle that you don’t realize you’re being abused. And sometimes the abuse has gone on so long you no longer recognize it as abuse.

What is Verbal Abuse? – Verbal abuse includes threatening behaviors (body language) and makes you feel horrible. It is the primary form of abuse in marriages and escalates into physical violence over time.

How To Help An Abused Friend – It isn’t as easy as you think! Follow these tips for guidance.

Bluelady Muse uses affiliates to provide funding to The Emergency Fund. Every dollar you spend on an affiliate site kicks back some change to Verbal Abuse Journal’s Emergency Fund. Together, we can make sure at least one family is safe tonight.
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