The smallest action foreshadows your bigger actions. Start paying attention to your small actions. Choose to allow your good actions to grow, and choose to nip any negative actions at their smallest source. They will trust you because you love them. So when they come to you with a big problem, you will react to it out of love. A smile and a hug translate into a trusting and loving relationship.
Your actions write your story every second of every day. What story do you want to write?